There is a moment in almost every teen drama from the early 2000s (and, let’s be honest, still today) that makes us wince on the rewatch. The brooding 17-year-old junior locks eyes with the freshman girl—she’s 14, wearing a backpack that’s too big for her, and has braces. The camera swoons. The audience is told: This is romance.

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